Both parties may feel shy, especially the woman. The man should be considerate and caring towards the woman, and the woman should also actively cooperate. During the first sexual intercourse, the first thing encountered is the rupture of the hymen and the pain and slight bleeding caused by the rupture. Therefore, both the man and the woman should cooperate well. The man should gently and gradually stimulate the woman's sexual desire, and then engage in sexual intercourse. During intercourse, the movements should be slow and gentle. If it doesn't succeed at once, you can try again several times.
If the man only cares about himself and ignores the woman, engaging in rough sexual intercourse, it will not only cause physical pain to the woman but also bring mental discomfort, making the woman develop a aversion to sexual activities. The woman should also actively cooperate, overcome fear and anxiety, and engage with the man happily. The more sexually excited, the better the secretion of vaginal fluid, and the better the lubricating effect; the more calm and relaxed mentally, the better as well. This not only achieves sexual satisfaction but also reduces pain during intercourse. In addition, when the hymen is ruptured, the woman should bend her legs upward and apart, support her thighs with her hands, and exert downward pressure while holding her breath, which can alleviate the pain.
The sensitivity to pain when the hymen is ruptured varies from person to person. Some are very sensitive, while others are not. For those who are more sensitive to pain, it is best to abstain from sexual intercourse for a few days before trying again. After the hymen is ruptured, the edges of the tear may appear swollen and there may be small black blood clots. Generally, they gradually absorb and subside after 2 to 3 days. If this happens, it is best to wait for 2 to 3 days after the first sexual intercourse before having sex again to prevent wound inflammation. If there is excessive bleeding when the hymen is ruptured, emergency medical treatment should be sought to avoid accidents. Do not delay treatment for fear of being ridiculed by others. In the first sexual intercourse, the man may also experience premature ejaculation or sexual intercourse failure due to a lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. There is no need to worry too much about these phenomena. With the increase in sexual knowledge and sexual experience after marriage, as both parties coordinate and cooperate, the problems will gradually be resolved.
