A newly married couple is in the stage of adapting to their sex life, which is relatively frequent. They are also in their peak reproductive years, so it is advisable to choose the following contraceptive methods:
1. Oral short-acting or progestin-only contraceptive pills
These pills work by inhibiting ovulation in women, thus preventing pregnancy. The main ingredients in these pills are synthetic progestin and small amounts of female hormones, which are naturally present in the body. They are low-dose and do not pose any health risks. Therefore, this method is convenient, safe, and reliable in practice.
Some people may experience amenorrhea or reduced menstrual flow after taking these pills. This is a common side effect of oral contraceptive pills, as they suppress ovulation. Menstruation will resume after stopping the medication. It is important to take the pills as instructed to avoid contraceptive failure. This method does not affect the sexual experience for both partners.
2. Male condoms or female diaphragms
Male condoms and female diaphragms work by blocking the meeting of sperm and egg, thus preventing pregnancy. As long as the size and type are chosen appropriately, and the correct usage method is followed, the contraceptive effect is reliable. Female diaphragms do not affect sexual pleasure. The use of male condoms not only provides reliable protection but also meets the requirements of sexual hygiene.
Some men may feel dissatisfied psychologically because they perceive a thin barrier between their genitals (which is indeed the case). However, the quality of domestically produced condoms has greatly improved in recent years. They are thin and have good lubrication. Once you get used to using them, there should be no sense of dissatisfaction. If you initially schedule longer intervals between sexual encounters or use condoms after your partner's return from a trip, it can greatly reduce this psychological impact.
It is important to check for any air leaks before using condoms. The condom should be removed along with the penis before it becomes flaccid after ejaculation to ensure contraceptive effectiveness. Applying contraceptive cream on the condom can enhance its effectiveness.
3. Contraceptive films, creams, tablets, suppositories
Contraceptive films, creams, tablets, and suppositories work by killing sperm to achieve contraceptive purposes. They are reliable in terms of effectiveness and do not affect any stage of the sexual response process or sexual pleasure.
However, a few individuals may experience allergies. Since there is no clear pattern in the sex life during the early stages of marriage, and both partners lack experience, it is not advisable to rely on withdrawal or the rhythm method for contraception. Long-acting contraceptive pills are generally not recommended either.
It should be noted that both oral contraceptive pills and contraceptive films, creams, tablets, and suppositories may have adverse effects on sperm or eggs. If contraceptive failure occurs and pregnancy is unintentional, it is necessary to terminate the pregnancy to avoid the birth of a malformed or disabled child.
Furthermore, it is important to note that for couples using these contraceptive methods (including male contraceptive pills), if they decide to conceive, they must follow the doctor's instructions and wait for a certain period of time after discontinuing the use of these contraceptives before choosing the right time for conception. During this "certain period of time," male condoms can be used for contraception.
