1. Value promises: A mature man will never go back on his word. He takes every promise seriously and carefully considers whether he can fulfill it before making it. If he can't fulfill it, he won't say it. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trustworthy. A man who talks a lot but fails to take action is not mature.
2. Not boastful: A mature man never casually talks big. He knows when to be silent and speaks clearly without shouting. A man who drinks a little and then starts bragging about his small experiences and stories at the table, so loud that the whole room can hear, at most gets a laugh from the audience. No one will take your so-called "path of struggle" seriously.
3. Educated and reserved: They read books and absorb new information to enrich themselves. But they are not showy. Their talents are only displayed when necessary and they never deliberately show off to satisfy their vanity. They are like aged wine, the more you taste, the more flavorful they become.
4. Broad-minded: Mature men do not quibble over small things, seek small advantages, or complain incessantly. Their vision is not hindered by trivial matters. In family disputes, they are often the first to reconcile.
5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and others. They are good at thinking from others' perspectives and do not force others to accommodate themselves. They are good at cooperation. Men who always say "what I want" are typical of a childish temper and have not matured.
6. Willing to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn and can accept different opinions. They are good at accepting good advice. They courageously take responsibility for their wrong decisions and never make excuses.
7. Strong-willed: Mature men have a stable psychological quality and remain calm in the face of changes. Once they determine their goals, they strive towards them. In the face of setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn from them, and make timely corrections. They may get tired, but after resting, they set off with full confidence.
8. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They have the most suitable hairstyle, clean shaven chin, non-greasy face, and short nails. Their clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous. They will never wear black shoes with white socks or wear suits while traveling.
9. Respect for the elderly and love for the young: Mature men have compassion, a sense of social responsibility, and traditional Chinese virtues. They give up their seats for the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and goods to disaster-stricken areas, help children who cannot afford education, and voluntarily donate blood. They may not do all of these things, but they will never do nothing.
10. Hobbies: They are not just workaholic robots. They know how to use hobbies to relax their tense nerves. They balance work and leisure, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say that men with hobbies are less likely to go bad.